I was at my uncle's old old folk's home. I helped family pack up a few of his things. I noticed something. When people see you put boxes into your car at the old folk's home they think one of two things:

1) yay! a spot is open, I hope they leave soon. Or

2) crap. a spot is open.  They need a hug.

Unfortunately there's a lot of #1's. I would like to think that they're just optimistic. But frankly I think they're just too stupid to realize that they're packing up a car because someone's died.