It is my first journal on this network. I was at a popular bar in town last night with some buddies and I think I should post what I experienced.

What the heck is wrong with moaning when in the throes of passion? You could have knocked me out with a feather when I heard a guy complaining bitterly to his friend about his girlfriend. He was piqued that his babe moans too much during sex. Also, he complained that the moans were always too loud. The silly man apparently doesn't understand that he's doing something right for the babe! I don't get it; would he have preferred if she had just opened her eyes, stare blankly at him, while he thrusts, pants and heaves? Ours is a crazy world. A world that does not know what it wants. This guy should be thanking appreciative and elated rather than complaining. I heard there are guys who like being silent as they make love. How does he know whether he's flowing with the girl?

In one of those free-for-all parties we used to attend, a close friend bragged about how he could satisfy a woman and make her beg for another round. The listener was a hot pant. She became interested. When they finally got into heat, the babe lay like a log of wood; My guy's buttock was gyrating like a pendulum out of control, while the beautiful lady was bored stiff. Said she couldn't feel my friend inside her! Now the way I see it, it's either my guy has a seriously tiny electric pole or the babe's honey pot had become a high way! If you were to be in the guy's position, would you have liked an active or sleeping player?

Naturally, an active player may moan the roof down as you bite, lap, kiss or touch those sensitive zones. Believe me on this one, I know. Look, if that giant orgasm is coming, just let yourself go and come down to earth with a big bang and scream of accomplished! Yeah, babe, that's the spirit. I kind of like that funny satisfied smile on your face. Did you enjoy it? Whenever it comes, let it go with a powerful, sexy moan. Why stifle the natural cries of pleasure because an unappreciative guy?  Personally, I don't think I would enjoy making love with a girl, who does not show me in any way that I am doing something right or wrong. The good thing about love making is that your man or babe can tell you the places to touch, to create excitement or elicit moans of exquisite pleasure. Complaining about your babe or man moaning during sex only means you are trying to cage your spouse. Perhaps even make him/her to be on guard to stop the moans, rather than concentrate on the vital parts already in sweet entanglement.

Moaning during love making is a form of expressing pleasures or excitement as sensation builds and gets to a screaming point. Some people are vocal as their pleasures build, while others simply stiffen their bodies and refused to allow a whimper to escape. Others twist and move in response to mounting pleasure. I heard most people are not even aware of the words that emanate from them as they trash and turn. It's all a part of the awesome act called love making. So I see no reason why a spouse, whether male or female should complain of his/her partner's moaning.

As the moaning increases, pressure mounts and the babe begins to clutch her guy as if her very life depends on him. As a guy, don't be surprise if you later see nail marks on your shoulders and back. It was not intentional! Moaning makes your partner gets more excited and active. Once your partner hears the sounds, it eggs him/her on. Haven't you noticed that if a guy plays with a babe's nipples and she cries out in pleasure, he invariably goes back to that area? That's what I'm talking about. Your moan tells your partner things about your body you simply don't have time to start explaining and revealing. It's thrilling to me anyway to hear a girl moan in sexual pleasures. I don't know what is it about men that makes them so scared of allowing a moan to escape their lips while making love. They act as if allowing such human act would make them less of a man.

The moaning Tenderluver is talking about is not the kind associated with porn films or prostitutes. The way they moan and have sex in porn films is a make up. The man, for reasons I can't understand would begin slapping the babe's buttocks. These slaps are not slight raps on the buttocks. They are real hard and obviously painful slaps. Slaps that would make any saintly buttocks to emit steam! 

If your man/woman does not moan, please don't nag them or they may start faking it. Faking enjoyment of sex or orgasm is a crime against all that is beautiful. Don't get embarrassed if you suddenly catch yourself moaning as you fondle, cuddle and smooch with your partner. And don't worry if your partner is the silent type. He/She is probably concentrating on the pleasure that is building up. Believe me, when I tell you that inside your spouse's head as he/she keeps mute and pants heavily, they are probably yelling your name and praying that the pleasure you're giving them never stops. The gist is, let the moans come down today!