THE most important quality that I'm looking for in a guy would be GOOD COMMUNICATION - especially the ability to communicate your feelings! And there's more: I'd like to meet a man who looks for all the things we can agree on; who can let go of materialism and enjoy the things in life that really matter; who appreciates a woman's kindness and understanding; who hasn't lost touch with his gentle sensitivity; who loves to hug and kiss; whose appreciation of the world goes beyond the five senses; and last but not least, who understands that love is as much about giving as it is about receiving.